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You don't need all the answers to make a difference.

Whether your child has never used substances, is using now, or is in recovery — ASAP Community helps you know what to say, what to do, and what comes next.

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30 days complimentaryNo card. No commitment.

If you are worried, you are already doing something right.

  • 01You are not overreacting.
  • 02You are not too late.
  • 03You are not the only one.
WHO THIS IS FOR

Start with what feels closest to your situation.

You don’t need to know exactly what is happening yet.

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01Early concern

Something feels different

You’ve noticed changes and you’re not sure what they mean yet.

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02Active substance use

You know something is happening

Get practical guidance for what to say and what to do next.

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03Treatment & recovery

You’re navigating recovery

Support for treatment, relapse concerns, and the transition home.

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04Prevention

You want to stay ahead

Build communication and reduce risk before problems begin.

START HERE

A few minutes that change where you begin.

An introduction from Parents Against Substance Abuse — what ASAP is, and why it was built for parents like you.

WHAT ASAP COMMUNITY IS

A calm place to learn what actually works.

Not a forum full of scare stories, and not a library nobody finishes. A guided program built from more than thirty years working with adolescents and families.

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Guidance you can act on tonight

Plain instructions for the conversations that feel impossible, written for the moment you are actually in.

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Built from real experience

Shaped by therapists, school staff, probation officers, and the parents who have lived it.

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Someone is always here
03

Parents who understand

Discussion groups where nothing needs explaining first, and no one is judging what you say.

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Yours at your own pace

Start anywhere, stop anywhere, come back at two in the morning when you cannot sleep.

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YOUR FIRST 30 DAYS

Four gentle steps. No surprises.

  1. 01

    Join in one minute

    Just your name and email. No card.

  2. 02

    A welcome from Dave

    A personal introduction to help you get started.

  3. 03

    Explore everything

    Full access to guidance, tools and community for 30 days.

  4. 04

    Then you choose

    Stay if it's helping. Nothing is charged automatically.

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Dave Kopeny
MEET DAVE KOPENY
“Parents are the most powerful influence in a child's life. They just need someone to show them how.”

For more than 30 years, Dave has worked with adolescents and families through every stage of substance use — prevention, crisis and recovery. ASAP Community is everything he's learned, made available to any parent who needs it.

30+years working with adolescents and families
Read Dave's story
INSIDE ASAP COMMUNITY

What you'll find inside.

Practical guidance, tools, and support for every stage — from prevention through recovery.

01

Step-by-step guidance

Short, practical lessons for prevention, active substance use, crisis situations, and recovery.

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02

Conversation tools

What to say, what not to say, and how to approach the conversations that feel impossible.

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03

Workshops & expert resources

Focused education built from decades of work with adolescents and families.

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Support at your own pace

Start anywhere, pause, and come back whenever you need help or clarity.

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Private parent community

A space to ask questions, share experiences, and connect with parents who understand — without judgment.

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  • Moderated discussion groups
  • Ask questions privately
  • Parents at every stage
QUESTIONS PARENTS OFTEN ASK

A few things you may want to know first.

Short answers, so you can decide without digging through pages of information.

No. ASAP Community is an educational and support resource for parents. It does not replace professional medical, mental health, or treatment services.

Yes. The community is designed as a private space for parents, with moderated discussions and controlled access.

No. You can begin your 30-day complimentary access without entering a credit card.

You decide whether you want to continue. Nothing is charged automatically during the complimentary period.

Yes. There is no long-term commitment, and you can leave whenever you choose.

No. ASAP supports parents across prevention, early concern, active substance use, treatment, and recovery.

You don’t have to figure out the next step alone.

Start with 30 days of full access to ASAP Community — practical guidance, tools, and support for wherever your family is right now.

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